Memory’s Revenge
By JoAnn Wypiijewski
Mother Jones
Sept/Oct, 2005
This article reviews some programs run by veterans, talking to students (primarily teenagers) about what it’s really like to join the military, and what it’s really like to go to war. They aren’t ashamed of being veterans, they aren’t bashing current enlisted men and women, they’re simply saying ‘this is the real deal, never mind what the recruiters tell you – we’ve actually been there.’
The article presents the objective as discouraging students from enlisting and, perhaps, that is the ultimate objective of the veterans involved. Personally, what I like most about this was the honesty. I have a great respect for people who are able to say: ‘This is my experience, this is the reality of what I lived through, and if your situation is similar, then take my story for what it’s worth and make your own decision.’
It’s no news to me that the recruiters lie…or exaggerate, or place emphasis on the possible outcomes to the point where they may seem to be promises of what will happen. I’ve had my share of friends who enlisted and found themselves disappointed by what they got (compared to what they expected), and I have military family and experience working on a military base…the things I was told when I was a teenager were things I already knew about from personal experience. The exaggerations didn’t mean much, because I already had a good idea about what it was all about. Personally, I don’t hold anything against Recruiters. Recruiters are salesmen with quotas and they are military under orders to meet those quotes. They do what they have to do.
Besides, for all of the young people who are convinced to join the military because it will turn their dead-end life, poverty-induced-lack-of-opportunities, or tendencies toward laziness (or simply poor discipline) around, and were then severely traumatized by the experience of war; there are an equal number of young people who took the same route and did turn their life around. The military is a choice and an opportunity, just like any other. College isn’t for everyone, and neither is the military.
But, this article focuses on the fact that the kids with little to no financial resources and the kids who are poor students are the ones targeted by recruiters. There’s a discrepancy in who fills the ranks based on family and finances. While this is true, and there is something not quite right about it, it’s also true that there are places in this country where there are exactly two opportunities – and the military is one of them. I have lived in an area like this and, as a result, I have a real problem with people who insist that the military is bad, all recruitment should be stopped, and anyone who makes that choice is either destroying their lives or proving themselves to be against peace and friendship between people of the world.
I have a problem with removing half of the opportunity of an entire town/area/region/segment of the population based on the fact that some people don’t like the idea of military due to its connection to war. For many people the military is needed for reasons that have nothing to do with the protection of the nation, and a person doesn’t have to like something to need it, much in the same way that a person does not have to have all-encompassing-support for something to respect it.
This is also part of the reason why I am so adamant about the development and support of small business – if you don’t like the options people are choosing then provide them with opportunities for more choices. There are many people who would choose to start their own business or go to college over entering into the military if the resources and the support required to do so were available to them.
If you want to reduce the number of people entering the military in a given region, then work to develop other options and choices for life paths (and survival) in that region.
But, I digress…
It would be nice if the military were more honest – almost to the point of discouragement. If they would come right out and say: ‘This is what we do, this is what you’ll be up against, this is what we promise, and there’s no guarantee that you’ll get anything more than promised. Advancement and opportunity is based on the following things, and here’s a list of things that are controlled by you….Now, can you handle it, or not?’
This Was My Child
By Cassidy Hartmann
Philadelphia Weekly
Sept 7-13, 2003
Celeste Zappala has been on the news and the local newspapers a lot. While I don’t see her much anymore, there were a few months when she was making the headlines regularly – including a few that claimed she was under surveillance by the FBI for saying that she wanted to kill Bush.
I don’t know if the kill-Bush statement was true or not (I have always suspected it either wasn’t, or it was taken out of context) but, even if she did, it only makes sense given the fact that she’s grieving (and angry) over the death of her son. Death of a loved one means going through extreme emotions (no matter who you are), and anger expressed toward the person responsible for the situation that caused your son’s death sounds pretty logical to me.
Often media sensationalism and sound-bite-sized quotes show great disrespect for the fact that every event in a person’s life involves a process, and time changes their anger and their opinions as the emotions subside and their mind returns to it’s normal state of clarity. Sometimes I worry that this constant bombardment of good-guy bad-guy media coverage, based on half a sentence that happened to bust out of someone’s mouth in the heat of a moment, is causing (or has caused) the general population to forget that everyone has a process, and a path, and stuff they have to work through. Because you don’t agree with me now does not make me evil – in fact, it doesn’t even mean that we will always disagree.
Zappala has been using the media coverage on her son’s death, and her skills as a long time peace activist, to protest the war, to make connection with fellow families of military who’ve been killed in Iraq, and to simply make life hard for Bush.
Zappala makes an interesting point about the illogical arguments in favor of the war. Namely, that they have to continue to fight the war so that the people who have died fighting will not have died in vain. According to Zappala, this translates into making sure that more people die so that the people who are already dead feel…better?
Sometimes I have this harsh reaction to people who get angry about their loved one’s dieing in battle. There’s this it-wasn’t-supposed-to-happen-to-me attitude that bothers me. War is, by it’s nature, a situation where people try to kill each other. The last nation standing, wins.
What did you think was going to happen?
But, I am also of the opinion that there are a lot of unrecognized wars going on in this country right now. There are sides, uniforms, territories, guns, and deaths in the name of my side, occurring in a whole lot of places that many of the people who don’t like war or violence tend to stay away from. And, not all of these places are in the city.
There’s sorrowful acceptance of the people who die on the street due to the choices made concerning the people they associate with the side of the battle they choose. Yet there’s protest and personal offense taken when people die due to making the choice to associate with the US military and whatever side of the battle that institution may choose.
However, all of that said, there is one aspect of this article that really stuck out to me – it was the choice made by Sherwood (Zappala’s son) and his reasons for doing so. Sherwood was in the National Guard, and he’d decided to join after working side-by-side with National Guardsmen stacking sandbags during a significant flood in the area. Sherwood joined the National Guard for the finances needed to help his family get by – but also because he got to know people who were actively enlisted, liked what he saw when they were called to duty, and wanted to take part in protecting his home town. He joined the National Guard because its focus was local.
But, military is military and war is war, so Sherwood became the first Pennsylvania National Guardsman to die in battle since 1945.
His death is heartbreaking, but his decisions were admirable. From what little I know, he lived his life well and he made the decisions he saw were right for him, his family, and his community. He wasn’t forced into it, or tricked into it, or drawn to it out of desperation. He made a choice, knowing full well that there were other choices available to him. I respect that.
I don’t agree with the war, I think war (in general) is something that should be avoided at all costs, while at the same time recognizing that it’s part of the human experience (you can disagree with that if you want to). I would prefer war to consist entirely of hand-to-hand combat (using weapons no more advanced than a bow and arrow) and not guns/tanks/long range missiles/etc because I think it’s more honorable and more apt to develop warriors instead of fighters…but that’s just me.
However, I do believe that every person has a right to their own choice, and one of the choices we all must make is where we belong and how we will take part in our communities. Sherwood did all of that, and I respect his actions and decisions, and I really wish the media and the protests and the anti-war actions could spend more time recognizing that fact about his life…and ours.
Keeping the Legacy Alive
By Lorraine Gennaro
South Philly Review
11/24/2005
http://www.triplenickle.com
Sam Day and Robert Sample are veterans who proudly wear triple nickel insignia. Day served in Korea and Sample served in Vietnam. They were both paratroopers.
The Triple Nickels were the first black paratroopers and later became the first black unit to become part of the US combat division. While the original members were given the job of acting as test platoons for military maneuvers and fighting forest fires (African Americans were not allowed into active combat at that time), they are a legacy, a part of history and the primary reason why African Americans can enter into the ranks of both paratroopers and active combat military.
Day and Sample speak at schools and go over their history as Triple Nickels. They explain what paratroopers do and how the triple Nichols came to be (as well as how they changed the US military). Both Day and Sample made it clear that they didn’t care whether or not someone chose to join the military; they just believe that they were a part of history – and an important part of history that should not be forgotten or passed over.
This is, effectively, the other part of the story. These are the stories from veterans who can’t hide their pride in their involvement or their accomplishments as members of the military.
And this brings me back to the issue of choice.
It’s important for people who are considering enlisting to know what they are getting into – both the good and the bad. There’s glory and there’s gore. There’s orders and actions that a soldier greatly disagrees with and there’s the opportunity to protect your hometown and everyone you know who lives there. There are the vague insinuations of amazing feats of accomplishment that might be yours and there is the bones honest truth about what you are guaranteed to experience and receive…there are a whole lot of sides to the story.
There are many who would like to see an end to recruitment. Personally, I would like to see a significant modification to its methods. Give recruiters the freedom to be honest and the duty of carrying the history of the armed services (particularly the history of the military in the area the recruiter is stations in) to the people in their area. Make recruiters the people who represent the military with the power (and secondary objective) to complete the paperwork for anyone wishing to enlist. Provide veterans with a contact who is both able and under orders to provide venues where their voices can be heard and their stories told – all sides of the stories (perhaps even point-counterpoint debates made up entirely of veterans).
If that kind of change were made, I would support anyone trying to make this a part of the local community events managed/supported by city government, and a mandatory part of the history and civics classes required for both high school and college students.
Every person makes their own decisions, and respect for the individual making life-changing decisions is expressed through the action of honesty, and the presentation of complete information is part of what it means to be honest.